6.25.2021

cottonland

 

To recap, I drove from the Hudson River Valley through the Shenandoah Valley to the Coosa River Valley. I hydroplaned through the rains of Claudette through the Blue Ridge Mountains and the Smoky Mountains. I passed the Hungry Mother State Park, the Davy Crockett Boy Scout Camp, a number of Trump 2020 signs and trailers hauling everything from race cars to Harleys to  mobile homes.
   I fetched up high and dry in the land of cotton (though I'm pretty sure the fields are planted in soybeans this year), of kudzu and signs with bullet holes, of Piggly Wiggly, which, alas, did not have the raw peanuts I was wanting. And so began a round of socializing that won't quit. 

 

Oh, and this rave review of Donna's book.

6.23.2021

sweet home


 Having internet trouble, but I am safe and sound at Jan's in Alabama (just uphill from the sign). Will try to update as I move around!


6.21.2021

staging

 

Barbara brought me beautiful peonies. Katie brought me beautiful roses. All this in the couple days before I hit the road! Katie convinced me to take them along on the road trip. (Along with the guavas, cherries, raspberries etc that she left in the fridge. Pretty sure the fridge will go on the fritz this summer. It sounds awful and is almost 40 years old. The one in the living room, homage to my third world brothers and sisters, is over 50 and still going strong, though it's a pain to defrost.)
   Anyway, I cut all the flower stems, stuffed them in a plastic peanut container, and they fit in the cooler. Katie wanted me to carry them loose in the back seat. Not happening. We'll see how they do in the bed. Leaving in a couple hours.


6.20.2021

not moving much


 

I notice that I tend to sit in my seat and take pictures from there. This is not actually a good thing. If I were instructing a young photog, I would say, "Move around. Get high, get low, move around the subject." However, I don't seen to follow my own advice.


6.19.2021

time gangstyle

Two Harvard guys, a Georgetown grad and a Vassar girl—all ex-Time Inc.ers—met in a kitchen. Who got the most air time?


 

6.17.2021

RBS, the journalist

 There used to be special people whose job was to go into war zones and state houses and theaters and private homes and wild places to bring back information for the rest of us about what was going on in the world. These people were not necessarily smarter or braver than anybody else, but they shared a desire to discover the truth and a nose for falsehood. They had what was called news judgment.

    Yesterday we lost a real journalist. Dick Stolley joined Life Magazine in 1953, when magazines and pictures were important. As a reporter, writer, bureau chief and managing editor, he covered the world, from the civil rights movement on. He is the person who had the news sense—and skill at negotiating—to land the rights to the only film of JFK's assassination. He also hired me for the first issue of a magazine he founded called People, my first job in a career that would change my life, much of it at Life and People. Over the years he hired me back twice, and taught me—and many others—what it was to be a journalist, back when that was a respected job title rather than a word spit out dismissively.

   These days everyone’s a photographer and a reporter, but they are mostly reporting on themselves, from their fixed points of view. Wars from the inside. Protests from the inside. Restaurants. Movies. Professors. Movements. Politics. No objectivity, evenhandedness, factchecking. No attempt to put these feeds of information in context. No editing. No one to look at the work and say, "Un-understand" or "Huh?"  “Wait a minute, can this really be true?"

   Everyone's a critic, but only a handful have the critical eye. And one of them is gone.

   


6.16.2021

rites of passage

Some events other than birthdays mark the years. A school year finished for Hannah and Chris and their kids (phew). A junior prom for their uncle Simon.

 

6.15.2021

up for it

Whenever the weather is nice, New Yorkers are out and about. Walking the streets or taking public transportation can be joy enough in the sunshine. They begin with trepidation, but soon begin enjoying the moment. They even speak with strangers!
   And by the by, I'm leaving all this in a week, headed for parts south and then west of the Mississippi. But that doesn't mean I don't love New York.



 

6.14.2021

balloon man

 

"Oy've niver delivered bloons befo', " he said, in what I took at the time to be an Australian accent. "It's noyce—thir graduatin'!"
    What do you think this accent was? 


6.11.2021

yikes!

Never a dull moment in the city that has been slumbering but is now awake. Can you find the building pictured below in the picture above? It gave me vertigo to see this couple. I have lived here for 44 years and never looked out my window and seen anyone out on that fire escape before.
   People are sick of hiding out indoors!


 


6.10.2021

an outing

 


Did Ed pick the place to match his outfit? No, he picked the place because it's his local, and he likes the owner. And the waiter. And the fried goat cheese, and the bacon-surrounded dates. He told us all stories and bought us all lunch. Me and Chien-Chi and Barbara and Ralph. And then it was his naptime (4:00, since always). So Chien-Chi, who goes home to Austria on Friday, taxied him home, and Ralph figured out how to get us home by water. A long ferry ride for the price of a subway ride!
And even now, Ed is getting the staples out of his head and learning what chemo has in store for him. "I can feel it eating away," he says of the cancer.



6.09.2021

aging bodies

Off I went to the opthamologist. Good news! My prescription has not changed in the past two years, and my cataracts are not much worse. Bad news: Need to see a retinal specialist to explain why my eyes are seeing a straight line of type as wavy. Off to another doc. So those are my b/w half moons above, with dips in the middle. The dips are VMT—vitreomacular tension. They come with aging. They either get better or they get worse. Check back in a while.

Then it was off to the cardiologist to investigate a heart murmur. After an EKG and an echocardiogram, the word was cholesterol buildup in a couple valves. It comes with aging. It either gets worse or it doesn't. Check back in a while.

 

6.08.2021

famous edifices

As I go about NYC on my medical rounds, I have checked many famous buildings. The Chrysler Building, Grand Central, Empire State. I saw the new train station in the old Post Office Building, too, but did not get a good picture.
 


6.07.2021

sunny days

The sun came out, and it finally got warm on Block Island, encouraging Isaac to go on the road hollering, "If you got lemons, make lemonade!" And they did. The fact that they accepted Venmo probably accounted for some of their success.
  Meanwhile In New York City, we were drinking fancy limeade at Playa Mama, a pseudo surfer taco place in the middle of Amsterdam Ave. A bunch of us ventured out to one of the first gatherings in a loooong time, Honey. That's Hope, Donna, Fanny, Barb and Kay,  journalists all. Oh, and Ryan, who is not old enough yet but is probably doomed. He and his friend had a lemonade stand in TriBeCa the other day. Also a big success. Everyone is just so happy to be out and about.

 

6.06.2021

a visit with ed

Hard to believe that just a week before, Ed had his head screwed down (hence the bindi) and the back of his skull removed. He said the doctors told him that a large tumor popped out and splatted on the floor. This being Ed, the account may be exaggerated. Anyway it was a large, aggressive, malignant tumor. And it's out.
  He is going in to get the staples out this coming week, and I guess will find out at that point what they have planned for him in the way of chemo. 
   He is having difficulty with peripheral vision, which makes it hard to read and write and use his phone. Well, he has always been technically challenged. On the upside, he is sleeping better. He seems to be as smart as ever (i.e. more than most people I know, and most people I know are smart) and talks as fluently as ever. His laugh, when Chien-Chi and I visited him, is the same machine-gun version (some say typewriter) as ever. It was great to spend time together. Looking forward to some great parties and hearing those old stories again.


 

6.03.2021

ready steady go

Hannah and Chris got the house ready, and we are open for business. The first tenant arrived this week, hopefully to better weather than Debby had. It was freezing, and we have no heat. Looks mighty spiff though. All pix by Hannah except the last: Mood music by Debby.




 

6.01.2021

bye bye bi

 

There we go on the ferry. Chris took this picture from my bedroom window. Water pored through the portholes, and Debby feared for her life for the first 15 minutes. It was definitely a barf boat,  but neither one of us got seasick. The drive home in the pouring rain, splashing through rivers on the West Side Drive, was hair raising. But here we are, and all is well. Donna and Fanny greeted me with good food and good company. Debby corrected my parking error (loading zone), and I found a new spot. 
  And when I wake up in the morning, I don't remember where I am and expect to hear mouse voices saying, "Squeakeroo!" to let me know that they are coming into my room to play games on my phone.